I think I'm at least average looking (and avg height, since apparently that matters now), I work out and have a lot of active hobbies, a big tech job, and decent social skills. I know a lot has changed since the last time I was single 7 years ago, but I didn't expect it to be this bad. I recently got out of a LTR and have really been feeling the struggle dating. I've been in the Bay since 2011 and have finally gotten to the point where I am satisfied with most areas of my life (career, hobbies, friends), except for relationships.
Sorry for yet another dating post, but I wanted to source some opinions here since it seems quite a few people here have moved between SF and NYC.